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Valentia (Val)

lifts things up and put them down

Indonesian

loves foods, DESSERTS & CHOCOLATE, wine, Chivas, whiskey, and cocktails

*None of the pictures that I posted are mine, unless stated otherwise.

instagram: @barbellebeast


*watches a movie*
*sees a dog*
me:if something happens to that dog I sWEAR TO GOD
— 7 hours ago with 51066 notes
"Feminism is not about who opens the jar.

It is not about who pays for the date. It is not about who moves the couch. It is not about who kills the bugs. It is not about who cooks the dinner. It’s not even about who stays home with the kids, as long as the decision was made together, after thinking carefully about your situation and coming to an agreement that makes sense for your particular marriage and family.

It is about making sure that nobody ever has to do anything by “default” because of their gender. The stronger person should move the couch. The person who enjoys cooking more, has more time for it, and/or is better at it should do the cooking. Sometimes the stronger person is male, sometimes not. Sometimes the person who is best suited for cooking is female, sometimes not. You should do what works.

But it is also about letting people know that it is okay to change. If you’re a woman who wants to become stronger, that’s great. If you’re a man who wants to learn how to cook, that’s also great. You might start out with a relationship where the guy opens all the jars and the girl cooks all the meals, but you might find that you want to try something else. So try it."
— 7 hours ago with 64216 notes
blunts-and-robots:

lovemetoinfinity:

bendovalikethat:

livinginsperrys:

I feel I am sinning for reblogging this …

Single greatest picture

Jesus is killing it in BP

watch that fuckin elbow, jesus

blunts-and-robots:

lovemetoinfinity:

bendovalikethat:

livinginsperrys:

I feel I am sinning for reblogging this …

Single greatest picture

Jesus is killing it in BP

watch that fuckin elbow, jesus

(Source: owlhowls, via liftbylift)

— 7 hours ago with 213340 notes
#jacked Doritos. I had to.

#jacked Doritos. I had to.

— 1 day ago with 2 notes
#jacked 
Yeah I’m pretty flexible, if I say so myself.

Yeah I’m pretty flexible, if I say so myself.

— 3 days ago with 57 notes
#pizza #salad I’m done.

#pizza #salad I’m done.

— 3 days ago with 2 notes
#salad  #pizza 
diaryofagymrat:

2014 Olympia Champions!Ms. Olympia: Iris Kyle Women Physique Showdown: Juliana Malacarne Fitness Olympia: Oksana Grishina Figure Olympia: Nicole Wilkins Bikini Olympia: Ashley Kaltwasser 

diaryofagymrat:

2014 Olympia Champions!

Ms. Olympia: Iris Kyle 
Women Physique Showdown: Juliana Malacarne 
Fitness Olympia: Oksana Grishina 
Figure Olympia: Nicole Wilkins 
Bikini Olympia: Ashley Kaltwasser 

— 4 days ago with 133 notes
That moment when I thought I probably need to start cutting so my “heart-shaped” #delts would look more visible but then I realized winter is coming… #foreverbulking  (at New Orleans Athletic Club)

That moment when I thought I probably need to start cutting so my “heart-shaped” #delts would look more visible but then I realized winter is coming… #foreverbulking (at New Orleans Athletic Club)

— 4 days ago with 8 notes
#delts  #foreverbulking 
And with this I say goodnight folks.

And with this I say goodnight folks.

— 5 days ago with 6 notes
jazziebabycakes:

literallysame:

nohighs:

YOU REALLY THINK A FUCKIN PANCAKE IS GONNA FIX THIS HEATHER

I’ve reblogged this with like 3 different added captions and they all get me every time


I literally laugh out loud every time I see this.

jazziebabycakes:

literallysame:

nohighs:

YOU REALLY THINK A FUCKIN PANCAKE IS GONNA FIX THIS HEATHER

I’ve reblogged this with like 3 different added captions and they all get me every time

I literally laugh out loud every time I see this.

(via alayshaiifts)

— 5 days ago with 694334 notes

This past weekend, Carl and I went on a mini getaway to his cabin in Kodiak, Alaska. I decided to come when he invited me. He told me that there is no internet, phone signals, and electricity (though he’s got a generator) on his cabin. He also told me that we were even gonna have to ride a boat to get to his cabin.

For those who don’t know, I’m a big city girl whom gets motion sickness from any water transportation. I also don’t handle cold weather well. But I knew it would be hard to not talk to him at all for about 3 days (I know I know), so I decided to go. Besides, I was actually looking forward to see how we would act towards each other without our phones. See if we’d kill each other or not…

Soon enough after I got there, I noticed the freshness of the air. So crisp and so much different than New Orleans! It took us more than one hour to get to his cabin. Mostly because he’s got to hook and unhook his boat, etc. Complicated stuff that I didn’t know, but I did know he looked damn manly doing it. The drive there was also very scenic. Too bad I didn’t see any bear… I did, however, see a harbor seal, a baby deer, bald eagles from far away, and sea otters.

Once we got into the cabin and got our stuff up there, Carl started a fire because my southern ass was freezing and my toes were numb. Again, he looked damn manly doing it. I certainly had the pleasure watching him carrying the logs with his muscular arms & forearms, and staring at datass while he was starting the fire… Christ. Anyway. I found it such a turn on knowing that he’s really good at doing, you know, living-in-the-woods kinda stuff. I’m always into masculine and manly men. Carl has got it all.

Long story short, we didn’t kill each other. Hence why I’m able to write this while I’m flying back to New Orleans. We ate home cooked meals (by me, so it was nothing special lol), sippin on courvoisier cognac by the fire place while we deepen our connection, watched game of thrones, laughed, joked, made love, and everything in between.

It was just so nice. There was no need of internet or social media when I had the perfect companion. I have never had someone who cares so much about me, it shows. I love the way he cares, even with the simplest little thing, I can feel his caring. I love the way he gaze into my eyes with his deep blue eyes - I get lost in them. I love his kind facial expression that melts me. I love the way he touch me, caress me. It’s electrifying. And the way he’s so honest with me whether I like to hear his honesty or not. The way he’s so open to share his feelings and thoughts with me, making me not the only vulnerable one in our relationship.

I love the way he loves me.

I can’t wait to see him in Seattle next time (as in 4 days. Can’t wait). The end.

(This sappy post has been brought to you by someone who is truly, deeply, madly in love with her manly gentleman with deep blue eyes).

— 5 days ago with 10 notes
#relationship  #love  #personal  #Alaska  #cabin  #getaway  #vacation 
He always makes me laugh. #candid #alaska

He always makes me laugh. #candid #alaska

— 6 days ago with 4 notes
#candid  #alaska